Friday, August 17, 2012

Marriage and Divorce

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>Marriage and Divorce

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Mt 19:3-12

3Some Pharisees approached [Jesus], and tested him, saying, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?” 4He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female’ 5and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 6So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” 7They said to him, “Then why did Moses command that the man give the woman a bill of divorce and dismiss [her]?” 8He said to them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.  9I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery.” 10[His] disciples said to him, “If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” 11He answered, “Not all can accept [this] word, but only those to whom that is granted. 12Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.”



Reflection:


Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife? We must always remember that God is the author of marriage and God means it to last till the end. God never instituted divorce or separation after marriage.


In marriage, God wills and chooses a person to be your lifetime marital partner. He wants that this person should be your spouse for the rest of your life. It is God who plans that you meet and grow in love. Marriage must be built on love. In love relationship, partners must be God’s gift to each other. A marriage fails when love has ceased to exist among the partners. A marriage fails when God is pushed out of the picture, and human selfishness or egoism sets in.


How is my love for my family?
How do I cultivate the sense of the presence of God in the family?

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